Sunday, February 20, 2022

Divine Love

 

Love is a feeling of deep devotion, concern, and affection. The prophet Moroni taught…

47 But acharity is the pure blove of Christ, and it endureth cforever; and whoso is found possessed of it at the last day, it shall be well with him.

48 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, apray unto the Father with all the energy of heart, that ye may be filled with this love, which he hath bestowed upon all who are true bfollowers of his Son, Jesus Christ; that ye may become the sons of God; that when he shall appear we shall cbe like him, for we shall see him as he is; that we may have this hope; that we may be dpurified even as he is pure. Amen.

 

God’s love is a pure love.

 

I have met individuals who questioned the love of God. I have been asked by these people who doubted God’s existence, "If there really is a loving and all-powerful God, why did he create such an imperfect world?" 

 

It is my opinion and understanding that the fall of Adam answers this question. God placed Adam and Eve into the garden of Eden -- a beautiful, serene place where no harm would occur to them, also no death. This would appear to be the perfect world these questioners of God’s love desired. Eve, however, was first to learn (through Satan's unwitting prodding) that existence in the garden provided no opportunity for growth. Eve first, then Adam, recognized that knowledge of good and evil was necessary for their progress. They exercised the most important gift given to mankind, agency. God had told them:

17 But of the tree of the aknowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it, nevertheless, thou mayest bchoose for thyself, for it is given unto thee; but, remember that I cforbid it, for in the dday thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely edie.

God did not put them in this "imperfect world", they chose it for themselves and for all mankind that would come after them because they recognized the unique doctrine taught by Lehi:

 

2 Ne 2:25 Adam fell that men might be; and men are, that they might have joy.

 

Now one might ask, how does man’s choice to live in a lone and dreary world, a world filled with trials and temptations, one in which man must eat bread in the sweat of his face and deal with thorns and thistles, where women must bring forth children in pain and sorrow, how will that bring joy? And if a knowing God knew Adam and Eve would choose this world, how could he be loving?

 

The prophet Lehi, in the Book of Mormon, answers:

2 Ne 11 For it must needs be, that there is an aopposition in all things. If not so, … righteousness could not be brought to pass, neither wickedness, neither holiness nor misery, neither good nor bad.

 

In other words, without opposition there would be no learning or growth. There would be no happiness because there would be no unhappiness to contrast with it. Without sorrow there would be no joy.

 

Because of the opposition and temptation we face when trying to follow God’s loving guidance in this world, we make mistakes and these mistakes limit our progression unless the opportunity for repentance through the atonement is provided. This is where our Father in heaven’s and Jesus Christ’s love is truly manifest.

 

John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, (and the pain of that sacrifice was demonstrated profoundly by Abraham and Isaac) that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”3 

 

Elder D. Todd Christofferson, a modern Apostle teaches: His is a Father’s pure love—universal to all yet personal to each. Jesus Christ shares with the Father this same perfect love.

 

The prophet Lehi further taught…

26 And the Messiah cometh in the fulness of time, that he may redeem the children of men from the fall. And because that they are redeemed from the fall they have become free forever, knowing good from evil; to act for themselves and not to be acted upon, save it be by the punishment of the law at the great and last day, according to the commandments which God hath given.

27 Wherefore, men are free according to the flesh; and all things are given them which are expedient unto man. And they are free to choose liberty and eternal life, through the great Mediator of all men, or to choose captivity and death, according to the captivity and power of the devil; for he seeketh that all men might be miserable like unto himself.

 

The importance of agency cannot be understated. Without agency, there would be no atonement. If Christ were forced to suffer for our sins, the atonement would have no power. It is because he freely chose to take on the sins of the world that the atonement is effective for those who freely choose to take advantage of it and repent and follow him.

 

Elder Christoffersen said: The greatest example of God’s love for His children is found in the infinite Atonement of Jesus Christ. Love for God and fellow men is a characteristic of disciples of Jesus Christ.

 

We manifest our love for Heavenly Father by keeping His commandments and serving His children. Our expressions of love for others may include being kind to them, listening to them, mourning with them, comforting them, serving them, praying for them, sharing the gospel with them, and being their friend. Our love for those around us increases when we remember that we are all children of God—that we are spirit brothers and sisters. The love that results from this realization has the power to transcend all boundaries of nation, creed, and color.

 

Recall the scripture in Luke 10:

25 ¶ And, behold, a certain lawyer stood up, and tempted him, saying, Master, what shall I do to inherit aeternal life?

26 He said unto him, What is written in the law? how readest thou?

27 And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy aheart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself.

28 And he said unto him, Thou hast answered right: this do, and thou shalt alive.

29 But he, willing to ajustify himself (he is a lawyer and he sees that he only must love a narrow group), said unto Jesus, And who is my bneighbour?

 

Jesus then told the story of a fellow Jew who fell among thieves and was beaten and robbed. Both a priest and a Levite, fellow Jews, passed him by without offering aid. Finally, a Samaritan, generally despised by the Jews, passed by. He dressed the wounds and brought him to an Inn.

Christ then asked the lawyer who of the three, priest, levite, or Samaritan, was the neighbor to the man.

 

Brother Matt Hawkins of La Cholla Ward told the following story last testimony meeting…

He was on a business trip in Louisville, Ky during the recent cold snap that brought ice and snow to region. He had a hotel room that was a 10-minute walk from his business office so he decided to walk. On his way he spotted a man in a wheel chair in the middle of the road while cars were zipping by on every side.

The man was poorly dressed against the cold and appeared in distress. Bro Hawkins recognized the man seemed stuck in the road and unable to move. He held out his hand to stop traffic and placed his business bag in the street to keep it stopped. He approached the man and the man looked up from his wheelchair at him with extreme gratitude and longing in his eyes. Brother Hawkins said he imagined it would be the same look we would have if we met the savior. The man said his gloveless hands were too cold to grip the wheels on his chair and he could not move. Bro Hawkins pushed him to the sidewalk and removed his gloves and gave them to the man. The man thanked him sincerely. Bro Hawkins was this man’s neighbor.

 

Elder Christofferson said:

Because [Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ] love you, They do not want to leave you “just as you are”, [stuck in the road]. Because They love you, They want you to have joy and success. Because They love you, They want you to repent because that is the path to happiness. But it is your choice—They honor your agency. You must choose to love Them, to serve Them, to keep Their commandments. Then They can more abundantly bless you as well as love you.

Their principal expectation of us is that we also love. “He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.”24 As John wrote, “Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.”25

 

In the classic novel “Uncle Tom’s Cabin” two individuals try to help a young mischievous slave girl, known as Topsy, turn to Christ.  Born into slavery, Topsy didn’t know either her mother or father nor when her birthday was. When Topsy is asked if she knows how she was created, she says “I guess I just growed”. Topsy often acted out, doing annoying things to get attention. Miss Ophelia tries to teach her of Christian piety with strictness and punishments and finally gives up. Then the saintly, yet tuberculosis-stricken daughter in the house, Eva St. Clair, uses simple affection. Instead of threatening her with physical punishment, Eva simply hugs Topsy and says, "Poor child, I love you!" (25.48). Once Topsy realizes that she can be loved, and that someone believes in her, she begins the process of reform. Harriet Beacher Stowe tells us that:

Topsy did not become at once a saint; but the life and death of Eva did work a marked change in her. The callous indifference was gone; there was now sensibility, hope, desire, and the striving for good – a strife irregular, interrupted, suspended oft, but yet renewed again.

In my past, we had welcomed a new baby into our family and also had attained a new home. It turned out that someone had dropped a rock into the sewer line during construction of the home. A sewer blockage had developed resulting in a toilet flush causing sewer water to backup into the bathtub. This was not noticed initially and several flushes resulted in a fair amount of water in the tub…until the seal around the toilet failed and all that water came out into the bathroom and surrounding hall. This event coincided perfectly with the first-time visit of a newly assigned hometeacher. The dam broke and the doorbell rang one minute later. I answered and told our hometeacher that we had a bit of a disaster and we’d need to cancel. This loving young man removed his shoes, rolled up his pants, and he spent the next 45 minutes bailing and mopping while I concentrated on finding a plumber. We will always remember him as our best hometeacher for this and several other reasons.

May I exemplify love for my neighbor in this way. May I love enough to share my testimony and good works, I pray in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Christmas 2021

 This Christmas we decided to all meet where Eric and Krystal were since Eric could not travel. Eric has been recovering nicely from his surgery. We looked for a vacation rental in Allen, TX but couldn't find one. We finally ended up in Richardson, TX. It was something like 15 miles from Eric and Krystals house.

Felicia flew to Atlanta to drive with Haley and Charlie from Athens, GA to Allen, TX. They then rented a car to drive to Tucson while leaving Haley's car with Eric. Haley was in Tucson with us a few days. We made the traditional trip to Winterhaven for the lights.


 











Before driving to Dallas in the rental, we all took the COVID test.

Negative COVID-19 result
Then we watched the Ericson's dance.

We made the Richardson house comfortable.
Tree Added 



Eric and Krystal brought a poinsettia to go with the tree.

 We had our traditional reading of "The Littlest Angel"

Ready for Santa

Eric and Krystal are appreciating life

Haley prepares to walk the dogs



Really Ready for Santa

For Tommy

For John

Christmas Morning Excitement



Grammy and Charlie look on as John and Tommy play

Proof that Haley used Hand Sanitizer

Ready, Smile

We watched a movie


The Dallas Temple




The Boys visit Dinosaurs

Watch out, Eric!





The Frogs




Tree House Playground


We enjoyed time together until New Year's Day, after which we checked out of the rental home, took all the luggage to Eric's place, then took Gordon's family to the airport. The next day, we dropped Felicia at the airport and Haley, Eric, and Krystal went to the Farmer's Market. Haley started feeling bad about then. She had been COVID vaccinated and boosted but somehow, she was catching it. 

Haley and I stayed at a hotel that night then left for Georgia with Charlie in her Kia Soul. Haley started feeling worse while we were driving. Her throat became so sore and swollen, she thought she had strep throat. We stopped in Vicksburg for the night and the next day she made an appointment with an urgent care there. We arrived at the appointment and several other cars were there with people sitting in them. Haley checked in and was told to wait in the car. We waited for over an hour and called to check on how many were still ahead of us. They said there were 19. Haley called UGa and made an appointment at the clinic for the following day and we left Vicksburg for Georgia. 

We stayed by the Atlanta Airport that night and I drove to a Walmart to get olive oil to bless Haley. She started feeling a little better. The next morning, she took me to the airport and then went to Athens to visit the clinic. They tested for everything, and it turned out she had COVID. I tested when I arrived home and tested negative. I had no symptoms either. We don't know how she caught it when no one else did, even me after spending 2 days and nights with her. Haley fully recovered soon after. 

That was Christmas 2021. A time of togetherness, gratitude for Eric's recovery, and expiencing our first confirmed COVID infection in the family.